Know what you want.
Share it on your terms.

Plysh helps you and your partners talk about desires, boundaries, and sexual health — clearly, privately, and before the moment. No pressure. No judgment. No guessing.

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Free for iPhone — installs through Apple's TestFlight app.

We exist to inspire people to discover themselves — safely, with consent, and without judgment.

plysh /plʌʃ/ · verb

1. to say what you want before the moment.

from plush — the Y is an enthusiastic Yes.

"We plyshed before the party, so nobody had to guess."

The My Desires screen: consent preferences with Yes, Maybe, Ask First, and No answers, and a Top 5 favorites row

Answer honestly, at your own pace

A partner profile showing a consent comparison: matches, topics to discuss, and conflicts

See where you and a partner align

The Plysh home screen: your desires are valid, your boundaries matter, you're in control

Your boundaries, your home base

How Plysh Works

Discover Your Desires

230+ desires across 20 categories — some you already know, some you've never been asked. Answer Yes, Maybe, Ask First, or No at your own pace, in private. You'll learn things about yourself before anyone else does.

Share Deliberately

Nothing is public and there's no browsing. A partner sees your boundaries only when you send them a private link — your No's included, stated once and clearly, so nobody has to negotiate in the heat of the moment.

Hosting? Get Everyone on the Same Page

For house parties and lifestyle events: every guest sets their comfort levels, everyone sees where they overlap, and everyone agrees the night stays private. Anyone can leave at any time — and their answers leave with them.

Health, Handled With Care

Share verified STI test results with the partners you choose. Personal details are auto-detected on your device so you can black them out before anything is uploaded — and access ends the moment you say it does.

Your Boundaries Are Protected

Plysh is built for the most personal conversations — so the protections are personal too, not just technical.

Your card is never public. Only people you deliberately share with can see it.
Your No is stated once, in advance, in writing — no one has to assert boundaries in the moment.
Change your mind anytime. End a partnership or leave a party, and access is revoked both ways — instantly, no approval needed.
Health-document redaction happens on your device, before upload — you approve exactly what's hidden.
Try everything without an account — your answers stay on your device until you decide otherwise.
Encrypted in transit and at rest. Never sold. Delete everything, anytime.

For Every Body, Every Orientation, Every Kind of Relationship

Monogamous or open, vanilla or curious, straight, queer, or still figuring it out — Plysh makes no assumptions about who you are or who you love. Your profile reflects your real body and your real attractions, not checkboxes designed for someone else.